Have you had a concern, a problem, a tough decision, or a rough spot in your life and turned to your friends for advice? Well, that’s not a bad thing, but let me ask you this…Did you ask God? So many times we forget that we have a way to openly communicate with God—prayer. The Bible constantly talks about prayer and its importance in a believer’s life.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 confers two simple words, “Pray constantly.”
Now, I don’t believe that this verse would be able to stand on its own unless it was significant. Every time I read this verse, however, I always think to myself, “How am I going to pray 24/7? I have to eat, sleep, take tests, brush my teeth, etc…” I mean, how many times have you prayed while brushing your teeth? But, the point remains. We have a two way radio that goes between us and God and all we have to do is keep our hand on the button. Just always stay open for God to talk to you and He will always be open to listen to you.
So what do you pray about? Well, you may not always want to be repeating the ‘prayer requests’ you have had on your mind lately until you go crazy. Prayer doesn’t have to be a request. It can be a conversation, a praise, a worship, a question, or anything just as long as its communication. The more you talk to God, the more of a response you will probably be able to hear. (This is only because your part in the communication is more amplified, it’s not because God was ignoring you before—that’s not what He does.)
Since I’ve made my attempt to be more mindful about my own prayer life, I’ve found strange times when I’ll always just be talking to God. For example: I don’t know if any of you get anxious about being in front of people as I do, be it a performance, speech, or really just anything public. If you do, you know what I’m talking about. That feeling were your stomach twists up into knots, the legs get shaky, your mind feels numb, and your heartbeat is throbbing so hard you can’t focus over the pounding. Yeah, well it’s in those moments especially that I find myself just talking to God and just asking Him to take the nerves away. It works every time!
Prayer doesn’t have to be, “Bless this food we’re about to eat,” or “Help my cousin’s broken toe to heal, help my friend’s aunt find her lost cat, etc.” Although those are completely acceptable and there is definitely time for those prayers! It’s just that sometimes these become our only calls of prayer to God on a daily basis, if even that. Find opportunities to just talk to God.
What do I talk to God about?
Tell Him about how your day is going. “Today was ____”
Ask Him for advice when you need it. “I don’t know what to do about ___”
Take opportunities to glorify Him. “God, thank You so much for ____”
Tell Him your dreams. “God, I really wish that one day I could ____”
Come to Him with your questions. “God, why did ______”
Tell Him your concerns. “God, my friend _________”
Come to Him for your needs. “I need Your help with ____”
Any of these can work and so can many, many others. Sometimes, it’s even important to just listen. Keep the line open if you can’t find words to say.
What if I have nothing I can think of to pray about?
Other than just listening like I previously suggested, the Bible offers a verse for situations like this. In Romans 8:26 it says, “In the same way the Spirit also joins to help in our weakness, because we do not know what to pray for as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with unspoken groanings.” Now this verse may make a little more sense when taken in its context—Romans is always a good book to study!—but it still goes to show us that even when we have troubles in our prayer life the Holy Spirit still dwells among us and is spiritually active even when we are not. (Disclaimer: This is not an excuse not to pray! ☺)
Is there anything that can remind me to pray?
Well, I don’t know about you, but I find myself forgetting things all the time! So, I found a helpful prayer app that cannot only remind me of things that need constant prayer, but if you need to get back into the habit of praying it can literally send you a reminder to pray. This app is simple to use and has transformed my prayer life. This way, I have all my basic prayer requests written down and categorized. The app takes your requests and presents a few for you to pray for at a time and the requests change every time you finish a set. Personally, I am constantly adding prayers and reprioritizing them. I only go through sets of ten to fifteen requests each time I pray. That way I get in some time to just talk with God consistently as well. I strongly encourage this app, it is a very helpful tool that is easily accessed on your phone. It’s called PrayerMate. Please consider this app, even if you have a strong prayer life, this could help you organize all the requests you’re juggling.
Prayer is essential in a relationship with God and I encourage you to take time to talk to someone who will always listen and will never let you down.
My name is Kendal Adams and I am a sophomore at Old Dominion University studying Mechanical Engineering. I love sunsets, traveling, flying planes, music, movies, and Jesus! My favorite quote, which happens to be a verse of course, is “…be wise in what is good and innocent in what is evil.” -Romans 16:19